Thank you for your valuable input, Tulihenki! Even though our culture have took long steps in the last two decades or so regarding the more appreciated side of sexuality & sexual diversity, the phenomenon is still so young, that it cannot have penetrated (indeed) the whole pscyhological atmosphere. And what seems to the modern culture an asset, the sexuality's disconnectedness from all mystico-religious thought is seen as a serious disability by occult philosophy. The latter has always considered sexuality to be extremely magical a force, or a bunch of several connected forces.
I remember many combusted discussions about sexuality with people with homo- or bisexual identities when I have claimed that sexuality is so sublime and all-encompassive and also energetic, that different kinds of sexual contacts have different impacts on one's energetical person. This is what I still believe, but I have learned to remain more silent when talking about these things with people whom I don't know very well. For it usually seems to sound like an attack, because one is already on edge because of the subject's intimacy, and my words can be blunt instruments on many occasions. But my personal experience as well as occult deduction is that sexual intercourse – along with all the erotic play, be it with any kind of partner, or alone – may have a vast multitude of different effects on many planes of one's energetical and psychological being, depending on a vast amount of different factors. This extremely delicate and multifaceted nature of eroticism is one of the many reasons why I liken it to magical working as a whole. It is where the worlds meet in creation, be it subjectively only or also objectively.