I made this choice also, which is why I'll always be alone, since "perfect union" is not possible, but it's also unnatural, because perfection would be living death.
Last few years I've considered looking for sex partners in those dating sites, because I've been considering ending my long celibacy. Not an actual relationship, just for health.
Other stuff you said about the "dating scene" makes it look like I'd have much better chance, than would have expected. However, I see social media as inherently evil, part of the demiurge's plan, so being a part of it would mean selling my soul. This is social media too, but just better.